The Road to Restoration: How My ’56 Chevy Taught Me the Power of Patience
In 2020, my dad and I embarked on a journey to restore this classic to its former glory. We envisioned cruising down the road, wind in our hair, turning heads wherever we went. But like any worthwhile endeavor, unexpected detours paved the road to restoration.
My 1956 Chevy isn’t just a car – it’s a member of the family. Since 1964, this beauty has been a witness to our family’s history. It carried my parents on their honeymoon, brought my sister and me home from the hospital, and served as a canvas for my grandfather’s mechanic skills.
Lost parts, elusive components, hidden repairs – the setbacks felt endless. Each delay pushed back the completion date, and my dream of showcasing the Chevy at Hot August Nights in Reno evaporated.
For someone with ADHD, patience isn’t exactly a factory setting.
Impulsivity, restlessness, and the constant urge to move on to the next thing are my default modes. This restoration project became a crash course in mastering the art of patience.
Believe me, there were moments when my ADHD temper threatened to erupt. I wanted to scream, to throw tools, to give up entirely. But I knew that wouldn’t get me anywhere. Instead, I leaned on stress reduction techniques – deep breaths, mindfulness exercises, and the occasional walk around the block – to keep my cool.
And then, finally, the day arrived. The Chevy, gleaming in its restored splendor, was ready to hit the road. The meticulous work of the mechanic was evident in every detail. He hadn’t cut corners or compromised quality for speed. The car was everything I dreamed of — and more.
This experience transcended a simple car restoration. It became a powerful lesson in patience, perseverance, and the spiritual significance of staying the course.
Patience, in its essence, is a form of faith. It’s the unwavering belief that even amid setbacks and delays, the desired outcome will eventually manifest. It’s about trusting the process, surrendering to the present moment, and finding peace in the journey itself.
This project mirrored the challenges many of my clients face when overcoming ADHD paralysis and distractions.
It’s easy to feel discouraged, overwhelmed, to want to give up when things get tough. But just like restoring my Chevy, reclaiming control over your life requires patience, persistence, and a commitment to the process.
As I cruise in my ’56 Chevy, turning heads and collecting smiles, I carry with me the profound lessons learned along the way. This car is a testament to the power of patience, a symbol of resilience, and a reminder that the most rewarding journeys are often the ones that test us the most.
Remember: Patience is not just a virtue; it’s a superpower.
It’s the key to unlocking your full potential, achieving your goals, and living a life of purpose and fulfillment. Embrace the journey, trust the process, and never give up on your dreams.
